Has Marital Intimacy Become the Source of Emotional Pain, Tension and Frustration? Do you sense there is more to gain from this special part of marriage but you don't know how to get there...?
Join Faigy Pollock for
Unblock Your Way to Oneness
The online course where you will learn how to turn marital intimacy into the birthplace of happiness connection and pleasure
Dear married woman,
If you find yourself struggling, occasionally or on a constant basis, in the area of marital intimacy, then this letter might be one you wish to read. The information I share in the Unblock Your Way to Oneness course is life changing. You will be exposed to a wealth of knowledge and understanding that will completely revolutionize the way you think about marital intimacy. It will give you the tools and ability to reignite the spark, and reclaim true love and passion between you and your husband. It's so prevalent for women nowadays to struggle in the area of marital intimacy. After all it IS a multilayered, complex, loaded topic. For pretty much everyone. I know, because I've been there. I know what it feels like to grope in the dark. Since it's such a private topic, many couples suffer in silence, not knowing where to turn for clarity and direction. Years ago I set out on a journey to find the light and G-d has blessed me in more ways than I can ever grasp. He has blessed me with discovering the positivity and clarity with which Torah views intimacy, and translating all that knowledge into a practical step by step guide of how to actually get there. Over the years I've been blessed with the honor of assisting many married women as they too discover the light. Marital intimacy, once the source of much frustration, resentment and guilt, has become a cornerstone in the happy homes of the many women I've worked with. This change can happen for you! It's a lot simpler than you think. You too can identify and resolve much of what might be getting in your way of having a satisfying, fulfilling and joyous intimate bond with your husband. Too many women live through years and years of an unsatisfying marriage, not knowing that happiness is just around the corner... When marital intimacy is a struggle, whether big or small, all aspects of marriage become shadowed by the frustration of a disappointing relationship. If not addressed, struggles in the intimate arena tend to become bigger and deeper over time. The pain, anger and isolation grow with each passing year. How sad is that?! But hey, there is no need to live in pain! G-d created marriage and marital intimacy to be one of the biggest gifts to mankind. Lack of basic, and not so basic info, can be the root of many common struggles. Learning and gaining tools and wisdom can do wonders to reignite the spark. You and your husband have the right to experience true wholeness and the pleasure of a deep connetion.
Come learn how to do it right.
Wishing you an ever growing marriage, Faigy
Join the Unblock Your Way to Oneness course, an 11 session online course.
Once a week you will receive a session to your inbox.
Each session is thought provoking, eye opening and practical.
Attached to every session is an exercise for you to print up and complete.
All sessions are prerecorded and include either a slide show presentation or video.
The entire course (including all bonus classes) are accesible to you for a full year.
Class 1: Draw Your Marriage In this session you will give a name to your unique struggles. This will give you a clearer understanding of what’s going on in your relationship. You will discover what work still needs to be done, and what your strong points are. This will instill within you a sense of clarity and hope.
Class #2: The Power to Hurt or Heal In order to create physical intimacy you first want to create deep emotional intimacy. In this class we will pave the way to a deep emotional relationship with yourself and your husband. Once you reach new levels of compassion, the yearning and passion for each other will happen almost automatically.
Class #3: Marital Intimacy - Introduction This introductory class covers the basics of marital intimacy. We will discuss how to talk about it with your husband. We will explore the importance of finding a mentor who can help you clarify any doubts you may have in this area. We will set the highest standard for true connection: The standard G-d has in mind for us.
Class #4: Marital intimacy - Male programming We will delve deeply into how a man works - in mind, body and soul. You will know how to respond, react and receive from your husband when he expresses his feelings for you. You will realize just how adored you become when you understand and embrace his male nature without judgment.
Class #5: Marital intimacy - Female programming In this class you will learn how to work with your body instead of against it. The oh so common frustration can evaporate! You will know the key of preparing mind, body and soul for intimacy. You can arrive at this special encounter happy, anticipating and ready.
Class #6: Marital intimacy - Additional sources and resources This class will empower you to achieve higher heights of connected and fulfilling intimacy. True pleasure that grows deeper over time. We will explore in what high regard Torah holds the mutual fulfillment of both husband and wife. You will learn how mind and body awareness are key to experiencing magical moments of connection.
Class #7: Healthy Attitude Towards Body and Pleasure What is the secret to becoming an attractive and radiant woman? Your ability to stop and smell the roses. Mastering this art fills you with confidance and vitality. It’s YOUR responsibility and ability to create that passion between you and your husband. You have what it takes!
Class #8: Differentiation, Love Languages, and Maintenance This class will reveal the most fundamental secret of a healthy successful relationship, inside the bedroom and out. So many things will become clear! You will learn how to look inward instead of outward for approval. You will come to realize just how loved you really are. Making time for intimacy on a steady basis will become top priority and you will reignite the spark. Your life will radically change once you put this class into practice.
Class #9: Male/Female Differences in Relationship In this session you will learn how to effectively communicate with your man ;-) You will understand much better what makes him tick. You will understand what makes you tick. You will clearly recognize how much of the daily frustrations are due to the fact that you are female and he is male. Instead of getting angry you'll be able to giggle :”Oh, what a classic man…”
Class #10: Conflict as Opportunity for Closeness In session 10 you will come to realize how even the most challenging areas of your relationship with your husband are gifts. Big gifts. You may even welcome wholeheartedly the next conflict. You will gain the understanding that conflict is NOT a problem and you will learn how to handle conflict in a growth enhancing manner. You will come to love the person you become through working on your marriage.
class #11: So What Does It Really Mean To Respect My Husband...? This class will give you back your man. The man you’ve always wanted. The man you can lean on and trust. You will be able to let go and relax. Their will be space for your husband to take responsibility because you will learn how to let go and be a woman… You have it within you. I know that you do.
"The Secret of True Intimacy" - Torah's approach to marital intimacy.
This class is the foundation of it all.
Many struggles evaporate when we get it straight. Torah is life! and Hashem gave us clear guidelines through Torah to experience a fulfilling intimate relationship.
"Making Time and Space For Togetherness to Happen" - Practical and easy to implement tips and ideas to help create space for intimacy.
For many women, this is one of the biggest challenges!
Say "bye" to all that guilt and frustration of yet another day gone by where you've barely exchanged more than a glance and two sentences... ("Did you pay that bill?", "Your brother called looking for you"...)
"Building Hashem's Kingdom" - The workshop that will teach you how you can turn your daily routine from draining to energizing.
Imagine getting to the end of the day feeling like a million dollars instead of feeling like the cleaning lady ;-)
Feeling like the cleaning lady is not all that conducive to marital intimacy...
How Do I Talk to My Kids About Intimacy? How Do I Talk About it To Myself?
There is no greater gift a parent can give their child than a positive and healthy attitude regarding sexuality. I've seen time and again that Kallahs who receive from home a healthy and positive approach, are so much more prepared for marriage. This bonus class will be yet another step in establishing a healthy outlook regarding sexulaity, and impart some guidelines on how to correctly convey this message to your children.
TWO live Q and A sessions
This is your opportunity to send in all your questions and get them answered.
Platinum Bonus #1:
1 Hour private phone or skype consultation with Faigy. This is your golden opportunity to work personally on specific issues you are facing in your marriage and intimate bond.
This private consultation is to be scheduled within the first 6 months of signing up for the program.
This session may be scheduled Sun-Thurs from 9-1AM and Sun-Thurs from 8-9PM Isreal.
Platinum Bonus #2:
"The Powerful Waters Of the Mikva"
The wokshop which will show you how to revolutionize your Mikva experience by overcoming Mikva anxiety. Turn the Mikva into a relaxing, pampering, and exciting experience.
Platinum Bonus #3:
"Would You Miss Your Wedding Night?!"
Learn how to reinforce your commitment to your husband and marriage. Gain a new attitude and perspective towards Mikva night.
Platinum Bonus #4:
Taharas Hamishpacha Refresher Course Video Series
An in depth review of the laws of family purity, with a visual clear slide show.
Even if you know these Halachos in your sleep, it's always important to review and hear it again.
To ensure your 100% satisfaction, I'm offering you a 30 day money back guarantee. If for whatever reason you wish to discontinue, just send me an email and I will fully refund you, no questions asked.
"I found your classes on intimacy very helpful and my husband found it incredibly helpful and validating. We've had excellent shalom bayis since we heard it and implemented it b"h. So thank you!! We hope we can sustain it."
"I finally finished listening to the session. It was incredible. The information is so valuable, and you gave it over so beautifully and comfortably. The session was so full of useful and practical information, and the presentation was very enjoyable."
"Honestly, I was very skeptic when I saw your first advertising, I thought it's going to be another one of those marriage workshops where they say that everything is so rosy or should be rosy and just give chizzuk. But you spoke about the honest reality for some of us, I felt I was understood and validated (thinking: hey! I'm not the only crazy one who thinks/feel that!) and you actually gave practical advice for things I thought there was no solutions for. "
"I wanted to tell you that I feel a significant change in myself. Being part of this course , listening to the classes, reviewing and trying to implement these tools and insights in my life, made me feel much more capable. I feel like the course is giving me the confidence and the knowledge, to prove to myself that I know how to BE"H work the system and improve my bond with my husband."
"I truly believe that you are a malach that was sent to me from heaven. This course has completely changed me, and I only listened to 3 classes so far! It is fascinating, so profound and real, everything is straight on target and there's actually a solution to all these feelings and problems! I'm truly amazed! Thank you for all the effort you put into these classes, it sure is worth it! "
"While hearing and reviewing the class (I'm taking it seriously!) I realized that it's something I was never taught - and better now than never. Also, I feel like I owe and deserve this learning to my husband, myself and my marriage."
"I finally finished listening to the session. It was incredible. The information is so valuable, and you gave it over so beautifully and comfortably. The session was so full of useful and practical information, and the presentation was very enjoyable. "
"I joined your first webinar all the way back at the beginning of April. I found it so interesting and a lot of the things that I had questions on/ had the wrong perspective on, were much more clearer to me after this webinar."
These are real quotes from women who joined the course. Names, an even initials, were not included. This is to protect the total ptivacy of course graduates.
Q: Do you have Rabbinical backing?
A: Yes. Rabbi Dovid Ostroff Shlit"a from Har Nof Yerushalayim knows me personally and gives this course his full support and backing.
Q: My marriage is really solid, thank G-D. Do I have what to gain from your course?
A: Yes, and yes again. Wheather you are struggling or deeply satisfied, marital intimacy is an area where there is no end to the depth and joy that can be reached.
Q: I'd like to sign up for the basic package. Can I send in questions by email?
A: I'm sorry, but the basic package does not include email guidance. You can get your questions answered at the 2 Q&A bonus sessions.
Q: Will other course attendees know that I've joined the course?
A: No!! The course is so private, due to the sensitivity of the subject.
Q: How explicit is the material in the course?
A: Quite explicit. In the sessions that address intimacy, explicit references are made. All of course in a respectful way, but explicit. You definitely want to listen to those sessions with no one around, or with ear phones.
Q: Are the classes downloadable?
A: Due to the sensitiity of the topic , non of the calsses are downloadable.
Q: How long do I have access to the classes (including all the bonus classes)?
A:You can access the couse for a full year.
Q: What if I can't make it to the live Q&A sessions?
A: Don't worry. You can send in your questions before and listen to the recording.
Q: I need a payment plan different than the one you offer. Can you help me?
A: Sure! Please contact me so we can work out a payment plan that suits you.
Q: I have an Israeli account. Can I pay in shekel via check or bank transfer?
A: Yes sure. Please contact me so we can work out the payment method best for you.
Q: I have a filter on my internet. Will the course open up on my computer?
A: You will have to check this out for yourself. Of course, if it does not work, I will fully refund you.
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